WHY ARE YOU WOMEN DATING ARABS ONLINE?

Submitted by MICHELLE (United States), Aug 1, 2008 at 00:52

Ok here it is and if requested I Will give you my email... You woman first of all shouldnt be meeting any type of man on the internet! The ages that I have seen on here are older than 40! I am newly 30 I have been with my Moroccan man for 5 years now! But heres the thing that is getting on my nerves about all the posts I am reading! Youre meeting them online.....you do not know any of these men at all so what maybe you takled to them for 6 maybe 12 mths DO YOU REALLY THINK YOU KNOW THEM! HELLO!

Does the younger generation have to warn you on the dangers of online dating are you serious! You women are getting married to these men and asking if the other women know him........IF YOU DONT YOU SHOULDNT HAVE MARRIED HIM! Why are you women sending money to these men over seas when our economy is so messed up you cant afford your OWN gas lady! HELLO!

Am I the only one thats sees this crap! Seriuosly if I had by chance been looking for love and got deSperet enough to go looking online....if he wanted to come to the states get your own butt here! If you cant than youre not worth my time! If you cant afford to get here on your own will and hard work than dont bother! My fiance's father applied too many times to come to America by the 4th time he didnt think he was going to get approved but he felt in his stomach for his family and the job situation he should try again. by chance that man was walking by the office and walked in and applied a couple of weeks later he was called and he was approved for a visa to go to the states.....

the man got to NY and had his wallet stolen..... he found the nearest Mosque and slept on the street and prayed...... he was offered shelter and found a job with in a week anything he took it.......he was humble......soon he saved money to send my fiance his mom and brother they lived in a small apt in NY near his dads job the tub was in the kitchen ladies...... but he made it work they moved to VA were soon after I met my Fiance.......I met him with three children and he loved me he had his citizenship he didnt need anything from me but my love!

Now granted he is double standard and hard headed and does as he pleases, but he pays the bills......Yes I bust my but for his restaurant we built together and I dont really bring home a lot of money but I dont want for anything if I dont have the money he gives it to me! Yes he wants his house clean and no he's not going to do it unless i'm out of town lol but ok I knew that b/f I moved in with him!

My point ladies is that your meeting these men online thinking they love you and they might a lil but really just enough for you to help with his green card my fiance has told me too much crap! You are being duped into everything and its your OWN fault......go ahead and flirt have what ever kind of relationship you want online its not the real you! Play all you want thats all they are doing!

And yes after dating a couple of years I converted to Islam and I know we are sinning but no one is withOUT sin! But we love eachother and we both dont care what anyone else thinks about us! And that keeps us strong! Moroccans arent bad to marry its online dating and mail order hubbies that are bad! You can meet all these Moroccans at a near by Starbucks stay off line and go have coffee meet some one face to face you would be suprised with the men that are attracted to older women and girl if your spectical about his genuiness ask to see his green card girl they carry it everywhere if they have one go for it if not KEEP TRUCKING! i LOVE YOU ALL MY WOMAN BUT PLEASE BE WISE ABOUT YOUR CHOIcES

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