To Burned.......To a CRISP

Submitted by Zella (United States), Aug 1, 2008 at 22:22

If you are this insecure, you need therapy - LOTS OF THERAPY. What makes you think that any woman who posts on this blog would actually try to seduce your friend, lover, or whatever he is just to see if he is trustworthy? You are insulting the intelligence of every woman who posts here. If you can't trust this man, why do you continue to have a relationship with him?

One lesson I learned some time ago is that we often play what I call the "blame game". We blame others instead of developing insight into our own shortcomings (of which we all have many). Not only do I see you as not trusting your friend but it appears to me as if you don't trust yourself. I can tell you one thing for sure....you have some serious trust issues and if you don't address them, you will never find happiness.

If my remarks have angered you....then I have helped you. Anger can be healthy if it is used to motivate one to take responsibility for self.

You have two small children. They need a mother who can teach them to trust self and others. Children Learn What They Live.

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