it is not your fault

Submitted by wiser (United States), Aug 4, 2008 at 11:10

Hi, i read your story, and want you to know that i will be here for you if you need. I have had similar experience.

I am 50 and my hot moroccan man was 30 also, it is hard because they give us something different than we have here. At least initially, then it is all about their agenda, hey if they were used car salesmen,they would make a bundle. They are very good.

Luckily i stopped the madness before he actually came here on fiance visa. you need to get out of this relationship, make it clean and final. It will be difficult at first, because it is so nice to feel like we are special to a hot gorgous guy. But honey it is an illusion. i wonder if my guy is actually gay or at least bisexual, They are different animals i mean they come from nothing and want utopia, aka u.s.a but of course they dont realize you have to work your butt off to get it.

Good luck to you and be at least half as good to yourself as you have been to this jerk. take care ok

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