Baiting your man

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Aug 4, 2008 at 13:50

hi there

I don't think this is something that can happen. The moderators don't usually allow contact information to be posted.

If you have caught your man in half-truths and notice red flags, why on earth are you with him? I can understand that you want to bait him for you perceive to be a final confirmation, but it doesn't always work.

The question I have for you is: Would you put up with this if he were a Western man?

I think you are geninue in the sense that you just want to be happy and know, but sometimes you have to be able to rise to the occasion and see that this isn't good for your or your children.

I used to think along the same lines as baiting and spying and all that, but the reality is, if there is even a need, something is wrong, because there isn't enough trust. It's impossible to be happy with someone you don't trust.

Please, for your own sake and the sake of your kids, just leave this man.

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