Thanks, Anya

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Aug 16, 2008 at 21:45

Thank you for your response.

Yes, Isis has indicated that her relationship keeps her on her toes, but at least she is accepting reality. I was in a similar situation and I had my Zellas, Anon1's, Yasmines and Hishams telling me to quit but I didn't and got burned for it.

So, give yourself credit and just keep your eyes open. It's good advice for any relationship these days.

The only thing I would be wary of in your case is his education. What does it mean to get an education these days? Employers seem obsessed with having that piece of paper called a degree, yet don't seem to care that in the West we are graduating a bunch of test-takers. It doesn't mean that he necessarily has a genuine appreciation for other cultures.

Besides that, there have been several men on here are educated and act like children.

The reason I brought up marriage is because that's usually when they do a 180 personality turn on you.

God's will----that is for you to decide, and I'm glad you're taking it slow. Just be careful with this because I've heard people use God to justify a bunch of stupid things before too.

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