To Polly re exposing this man

Submitted by yasemin (Canada), Aug 23, 2008 at 13:37

Polly, you are a lot smarter than i was - i should have done the same thing you did in the very beginning to find out who my turkish husband really was. Don't hold onto the anger too long - it will eat you alive and anyway, he won't care if he's exposed for being a rat.

To these guys, it's just a game and they simply move onto the next woman. Just walk away and start enjoying liffe with real people. That's your best "revenge". If you must get some revenge, and i'm sure it helps us hold up our heads more easily, join my facebook group Middle eastern love rats and post pics of him and what he did to you.

Count yourself being one of the lucky ones - you got out before any serious damage. Lastly, and this is no comfort to you, your situation is better than if you had married him and then, like me, found out there was a fiance waiting for your guy to get your money and/or a visa to make their lives beautiful. You are indeed fortunate, and this experience will serve you well in the future. P.S. Your english is just fine :)

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