Charming Turkish man

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Sep 2, 2008 at 20:27

Thank you for the compliment, NurseJo!

My Turk man is absolutely charming , kind, thoughtful, attentive and a gentleman. He is a man of his word and I have no suspicions that he may be lying. Mel you mentioned that online is only words but my what sweet words. Yes he is coming to me in December to spend some time together, so face to face I have an opportunity to get to know this man and have a more real courtship. I am hoping that if there are flaws in his personality I will be more able to pick up on them then.

I'm referencing what you wrote in your response to Mel.

I have been on here for about 8-9 months or so, and I hear the same thing everytime, NurseJo....he's handsome, charming, ect.

I have no doubt that he is attractive. It's completely understandable why you are drawn to this man.

But, what I have noticed when I talk to women over the internet: It's sooooo much easier. A lot of times, guys can't hold the gaze or woman or are just "honored" to be with her, and it's a big reason why they don't get far in real life.

I cannot emphasize enough how important it is for women to realize the REAL person in a lot of international relationships may not come out until a few years into the marriage.

Nursejo, I don't like this situation at all. The fact that he's planning a move to Australia under residency while dating you is just too much of a coincidence in my view.

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