Lisa, I have to agree with Luigi

Submitted by Hopeful (Canada), Sep 13, 2008 at 04:56

Hi Lisa. I have to agree with Luigi in your situation. Maybe it will work out for you, but there are definite warning signs. The age is one of them. Talking about marriage and moving to one another's country is another. I would never talk about that with someone who I've only "met" online. You don't truly know what he is like. You can't touch him, can't interact in person with him on a daily basis, can't see how he would act in a disagreement because the two of you. Anyone can seem perfect on a webcam. It's not like he has to keep the act up 24/7, just while on a webcam with you. People can be whoever they want to be online. I would never be able to fully trust someone I've met online.

You tell Luigi "You think you know my fiance......My fiance wants nothing from me but my love". I can't believe you can be engaged to someone you've never met in person. I wish you the best of luck and hope that Luigi and I are wrong, but I'm not sure that we are.

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