response to LSL

Submitted by Lisa (United States), Sep 13, 2008 at 23:24

I am going to visit him in his country in November and staying for 15 days which I will meet his little brother and older sisters, but mainly we will spend lots of alone time together to get to know one another and explore our feelings....We have both discussed if we will marry and he thinks I will not be pleased with his looks etc and I am nervous about the same and its not set that either one "just has to" marry the other.....We will be open about our decision.....We both trust one another and without trust there is no relationship....I have already offered to pay for things but he insists he has money and I will need mine.....He is a good one in beliefs...maybe its from having a dad who thinks you have to be rich to be someone......he doesn't wish to be rich, he just rather live a comfortable life with one he loves....and really I am not worried about the age thing....he tells me all the time, I am the big kid....I think it depends on if the older woman gets 'set in her old ways- the grandma type" or if she still likes to have fun and can be fun in the bedroom....I know I can keep my young man around and I have 20 something yr old American men who looks so Im not worried about age since he doesn't care as well and he has a sister my age so he knows what he will be getting as far as the age thing,lol....Furthermore he is coming to USA to live and he has to follow our laws while here and did you know once he marries an american that the second wife thing does not apply anymore...only if he marries a muslim lady?

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