Moroccan talk, e-mails, my life with my moroccan

Submitted by lisa to Kerry (United States), Sep 16, 2008 at 18:34

Kerri I understand your intentions are good but you need to realize that even though your man might use my love etc most moroccan's talk this way and they are influenced by french....first off your man would not call you Rose cause that is my nickname cause its my favorite flower and it originated from us kidding around one night....and its also a password we use......

bye my heart, I love you my heart...my life.... is all typical conversation and words they use to show affection just like in US we may use my darling, sweetie, hun, honey, babe, baby, handsome, and so on....so you can't say cause your guy use some of the same descriptions that he did or does not mean what he is saying....im not sure what your situation is altogether but sounds like you have had a bad one or trust issues.

"baby i was here hoping see your beautiful face before i go out but i think your working or sleeping..anyway my rose i will be here at night ...i love you and thanx for your sweet emails ...im sure everything will be ok with us and we will spend happy moments together and forever ...kisss i love you more and more ..bye for now my heart xxxx"..........................ok big deal...he e-mails cause this is what we do during day so we can keep tabs on one another since he is 5-6 hrs ahead and one week I work day shift 5am-3pm and very next week I work 9pm-5am.....and he thinks i am beautiful...again a descriptive word to show feelings and he calls me beautiful....i am considered beautiful to many and JUST JUST maybe your guy might have thought you were beautiful too,lol. and "im sure everything will be ok with us....i was discussing issues with him and concerns going through getting my divorce finalized (separated and estranged for 4 yrs...you are taking part of our conversation and implying it to your own....kiss to my kids....its to show affection and include them...would not all men do that when dating a woman with children? Sure they would but it doesn't mean they are using the kid factor cause you do not realize that half the time when he signs on to webcam/chat...my daughters or 22 yr son is sitting at desk and answer him and informs him or gives messages or gets me...so therefore the man has formed some feelings/frndship over the past 9 months with them....They like him...he and my son share conversations and joking....they joke how if you hurt my mom I am taller/bigger than you etc....be here at night....only time my work schedule allows us both to talk and he works as an accountant overseer overa large ship/fishing industry so he has to be at port when ship comes into Csablanca or Eljadida or surrounding areas......as far as crime....he was comparing to the crime US has that we had talked about when I was concerned about my safety traveling alone even at my destinations for the flights....He was assuring me US has more crimes and I am sure we do.......Most muslim women do not work or handle any transactions with the menfolk...I know he is the only one in his household that works. I also know he did the summer job and works at the port which is very demanding and will pay well but he would have to sign a 3-4 yr contract so he informned the boss without an open contract and to be able to leave whenever he would not keep the job....He is working for some rich political man that is owner of ship that he once did some political party stuff for last year and yes i have pictures with the media there holding microphone at the podeum. while he was speaking....so this is his ticket to remain in Morocco and have a great salary...the other accountant has been with the owner for 10 yrs...but he knows to have a life with me he can not sign...You are forgetting he is coming to USA and he has to abide by USA laws and he even reminded me of that.......

Really Kerry, everybody on here situation is different...people are different...some are liers/cheats...some honest...and until mine proves differently I trust him with all my heart and if I did not, there would be no future with him and he has to do the same with me living in the USA not knowing my every move.....he has faith in me from our experiences just like I do him too and until he moves here that is all we have...trust.....i can sit here all day/night but until you have met him and come to know him and his character, me telling you would not convience you or anyone any different now would it cause they are all bad and chaets and manipulators according to the ones hurt on here....heck lets just throw them all in one jail cell....i know what is in our hearts and no one will destroy what we have built so far and if it doesn't work out down the road...then at least we were sincere and gave it our best try......Lisa

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