"Do we have the same man" posts

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Sep 17, 2008 at 14:54

Ladies:

If you on here because you are not sure about your man, that is not a good sign. I can understand why it happens, but ideally, a person should not have to check up on their partners on-line. It's pretty silly, and doesn't often yield results.

While I strongly recommend abstaining from international, on-line dating, you're more likely to find out what is going on if you heed the warning signs as opposed to try and someone on here who may be dating (or marrying) the same man you are.

Please note that this forum has posters from all over the developed world, and it's a big place, so the chances aren't good, and while Dr. Pipes site has decent traffic for a blog on Islam, there are rarely more than 70 readers on at any given time, and there are numerous articles on this site.

My point is: If you can't find dirt about your man on here, it does not mean the relationship is real.

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