Lisa, you haven't proved anything

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Sep 17, 2008 at 19:16

Really Kerry, everybody on here situation is different...people are different...some are liers/cheats...some honest...

Pretty much every woman on here wants to believe their relationship is real. Lisa, yours is screaming with red flag warnings.

and until mine proves differently

If someone is trying to sell you on something, that's not likely to happen.

I trust him with all my heart and if I did not,

You can only trust what you've seen on-line and over the webcam, which isn't much. I've read your e-mails, and they are nothing new. Seriously, Lisa, do you really think that the other women (and men) on here haven't heard that before? Do you think our former significant others called us stuck-up b***** and the like? Do you they directly asked for things? NO!

Your situation is NOT unique no matter how you try and spin it.

there would be no future with him and he has to do the same with me living in the USA not knowing my every move.

It would be easier for an American woman to move legally to Morocco than to try and scam a man out ofi it. That's the difference, Lisa, so your logic here doesn't work.

....he has faith in me from our experiences just like I do him too and until he moves here that is all we have...trust....

So, in other words, you're going to marry a man that all you have with is trust. But really, you don't even have that because REAL trust CANNOT EVER happen on-line!

.i can sit here all day/night but until you have met him and come to know him and his character, me telling you would not convience you or anyone any different now would it

That tells me you are wayyyyy to available for him. No wonder. His confidence level must be enormous. He's got you good, Lisa.

Yet, if it's so wonderful, why are you on here?

cause they are all bad and chaets and manipulators according to the ones hurt on here...

I have reason to believe that most of the relationships on this forum are either fake or will not work out. If they were all bad, Morocco would not have a postive population growth rate, LIsa.

I want you to show me one post on here where it says that. Don't try and play the generalization card here, Lisa, it will not work.

I thought you were educated and could figure some of this out, Lisa, but the reality is, educated people seem to get sucked into this even more so than non-educated people.

Tells you how effective the Western system is, doesn't it?

.heck lets just throw them all in one jail cell..

Since your resorting to childish phrases as man-defenders often do, I'll just say you are losing this argument very quickly. Arguinig on emotion often does that.

..i know what is in our hearts and no one will destroy what we have built so far and if it doesn't work out down the road...then at least we were sincere and gave it our best try......Lisa

Something tells me that you won't think so when it doesn't. You seem to think if it doesn't work out, it will be for chemistry reasons. I see an entirely different scenario here, Lisa. Truimphant phrases and claims will not alter your relationship except in your mind.

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