Lisa....warning signs

Submitted by Hopeful (Canada), Sep 17, 2008 at 19:21

no one is pressuring anyone here infact he offered to marry me and me forget the visa thing for now and come to morocco when I can....its not set he wants to come to USA...

Lisa, do you think he would come right out and say that he wants a Visa? Probably not. He's going to make you believe that he's not in it for the Visa. It's just a mind trick in my opinion.

He wants me to convert to Muslim and I will cause even though I believe in God....i can't say allah is not the god....Im not that religious or christian so islam will be good and even with that he told me he did not want me to convert because of him but only if Islam is in my heart......

Ok, HUGE warning sign here. He's asking you to convert? Wow. And you're not that religious? Well if he only wants you to convert if Islam is in your heart, I guess you won't be converting then? Because if you're not that religious and you never thought of converting before, then it's obviously not in your heart. Sounds like another mind trick to me. It seems like he has you wrapped around his finger.

I don't know this guy or your relationship with him. But there's definitely some big warning signs here, in my opinion.

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