asking for money

Submitted by anonymus (United Kingdom), Sep 21, 2008 at 19:19

i have been seeing an egyptian man from resort area for i year, he is not well off and has been very romantic and charming , met him on holiday and have been to see him several times.

he wants to get married and i have said no as its too soon. last holiday he got moody becos i woudnt marry him there and then. he doesnt like dating. just after our last holiday he announced that he had no job and no money.

he asked me to send him some but i said no as it was not my problem. he seems to have money for phone calls to me in england and the net so ? i dont hear from him for 2 days sometimes and since i said no to lending him money his excuse is he has no money now and only texts every couple of days. but now he says he is in hospital and still no job or money,

wen i called his phone is switched off, which it would be if he was telling the truth. so he has no job, no money, no room to sleep in as he is staying with frends and now in hospital, he did not say why and i cant speak to him as his phone is off. he was a waiter before but now says his contract has finished. i told him to go to his family but he stated he cant becos he hasnt sent them any money lately, he used most of it on me in net and calls? wot!! i told him that was his fault and that he should plan his life properly and to stop trying to make me feel guilty. it seems he has many problems and its hard to beleve this charming man is a player, the thing is i cant prove he is not telling the truth, but what a story.!

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