Sefrou men and their games

Submitted by Keri (Canada), Sep 22, 2008 at 15:13

Hi Luigi, I could write a book. Talking to my man for two years was not enough. I had to meet him in person, and spend a significant amount of time with him in order to see the flags.

He told me that they sit together and come up with "Western Words" that the women will like. They compare notes. My man never asked me for money, and in fact stated, " i will never ask for money" (with the implication being that if it was offered it would be accepted ... after "denying" it 3 or 4 times).

Their own mothers don't know the double lives they lead. It was only the other day when my man said, "The only conviction I have is I will not cheat on my wife". When I asked if he would on his g/f he said "yes". When I said that his lies prevented his g/f from making an informed choice about her future, he really didn't understand what I was saying,

When I went to his USA city to see him all of his friends loved me. HAHAHAHAHA what a JOKE! A few weeks ago he emailed me a youtube video that one of his friends has made if life in USA. I sent the video to an arabic speaking friend I know. He was APPALLED. He told me that they spoke about me. (This was about a week after I had left them). apparently they said, "That Canadian Woman is coming back next month, Let's let _______ sleep with her, then we will all take our turns too. "

This really hurt me because 1. If he really loved me he would never have let them speak like that to me, and 2. Now its posted on youtube for all of his friends and family to see and it paints me like a whore.

So, regardless of how he "might" feel for me now, he disrespected me, and his friends did too. When I was there, they treated me with the utmost respect, and I took my own hotel room and my man did not stay the night. So how they can think I am a "whore" is beyond me.

I have so much more information on these men. The sad part if it is I do think that he did love me... towards the end, and that is why his honesty was coming out. This man could melt butter in his mouth.

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