luigi

Submitted by banita (Belgium), Sep 24, 2008 at 20:27

oh, i am with you. the lying to me bit was not cultural... that is just people. Lie, yes he did. Cheat, no, that he didn't do. he was actually phsucally and legally seperated from her for about 2 months before he met me. though no excuse for not telling me that instead of no, i am not married. and you are right, i don't trust him. and the fact that i come in the middle (at least not last like in the beginning) doesn't help. that would be why i broke up with him. at the moment i have been attempting to be friends, but it really isn't working out. he think that it is more, then the same issues come up. never ending cycle here. and i am not hte let it lie and wait kind of person. patience is not my strong suit.

ah well... enough of this catastrophe. i told him yesterday that it wasn't going to work, not even as friends. very sad, but had to be so. i would never feel very secure, would end up doing crazy things, and that, does not a good relationship make.

thanks all for your feedback!

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