To sls2 re red flags

Submitted by yasemin (Canada), Sep 25, 2008 at 22:03

This situation is loaded with red flags. As another poster stated, and I will be blunt in order to benefit you, men in the middle east are very racist and do not normally go out with black women. I know this from having lived in Turkey. Yes you may be drop dead gorgeous but it doesn't matter over there. I can see from the word Go that you were used.

Secondly, re the web cam - he is hiding you for some reason. Your gut instinct about this is correct. He doesn't want people to see you.

Thirdly he's rushing to leave the country.

Swallow hard. Then get out of this marriage as soon as possible. You're being used for a visa.

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