My experience

Submitted by Madame Yehia (United States), Sep 28, 2008 at 09:59

I am a black american woman married to an Egyptian. Before we married I met his family. Egyptians are very family orientated. Whenever we talked via internet/cam, we were always c2c. Most Egyptian men do prefer lighter skin but it's a preference. I don't understand why you would be a secret from the family.(RED FLAG) . Secondly, wanting to be in the states by January 2009 (RED FLAG) It can take at least 2 years for him to come to the states if his visa is approved.

Also, as u know the economy is not good here and there is no guarantee he will find a job or a job he can pay $500.00 monthly support and pay his bills here. Are u willing to support him and pay his child support until he get on his feet?

Lastly, $500.00 USD is a little over 3,000 EGP a month. The majority of Egyptians I know make under 1500 EGP a month and they have a family to support. Your husband seems to think he is going to be in the land of milk and honey which is not true.

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