Your life sounds a bit like mine SLS

Submitted by FARRAH (United States), Sep 28, 2008 at 18:55

SLS, I am the same ethnic background as you...and it's amazing that you traveled to his country!! I have always been afraid to do so. If he is Morroccan, they DO NOT marry black lady though the MEN can be mistaken for African American frequently. They only admire fair skin ladies of their own culture. It's great you have a job lined up for him but it so much sounds like he is skipping town. That's not your concern though...you must remember: A man that will leave his children like that will SURELY do the same to you. You can NOT change the laws of nature. You stated he got a divorce with the agreement to pay, the women often accept this situation...they bear a lot over there so their husband can bring them to the US. I will pray for you with all of my heart that you will be okay. The fact that he does not want you to turn on the web cam is my red flag. Those guys are in a cafe' with others "tuning in" on the chats. You are already married?? So continue your marriage, but I would recommend you protect your assetts down to the last penny! Luv and hugs from Farrah.

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