farrah, i broke up with him.

Submitted by banita (Belgium), Sep 29, 2008 at 18:40

and no, we were the same age. as for being married.... he is legally separated...and in belgium once that is done it is as good as a divorce because of it effects taxes, situation with the police (the police monitor everyone's residence by physically coming to check if you live at your address, even belgian citizens') and everything else in way that is much more invasive than in the us. it takes 2 years to be able to file for divorce and one year has passed already.

but again it really doesn't matter. the problems were more personality related. he is one of the most negative people i have ever met, very depressive, and he lied to me. i said get lost and he got lost. all is good. i am glad i didn't wast time with him.

what about you? have you stood up for yourself yet and gotten out?

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