to kralya

Submitted by hisham zein (Egypt), Oct 6, 2008 at 19:36

Daughter ... you are too young for this..you really are ...

the old guy is definitely after you ..he is a liar ... although army service is compulsory but never 3 or 4 years ..that was at the times of stress and conflicts ...from the other hand your boy of 18 is not yet asked to join the service if he is planning to continue education at some university, most youngmen get a relief from service due to cutting down the number of armymen .

the old guy is redirecting your feelings towards him and lied to you to stop thinking or even hoping for the one you love ...saying mean things about his wife to have your sympathy ..then feelings ...then you ....then he will be after another one ...

please take care and be cautious ..this old guy is a fox and he is doing anything to drag you into mean things ...stop stop stop talking to him AT ONCE and never trust anything he tells you ...oh poor his german wife ...if he persists threaten him of telling his wife .... be firm..very firm ..a respectable man could ever never do such a thing ... this guy is bad news ...dont involve yourself any further ...

back to your 18 year old boy .. if you love each other to have fun, go places , dance ...etc its fine as long as the boy is good to you ...but dont go any further in your relationship with him ....it is still early for you to decide whether you love or not ...give yourself a couple of years or three in order for your feelings to be more mature ...you still got the whole life ahead of you dont rush it ..dont rush please..

i dont know if you live in egypt for some reason if so its fine to mingle with people your age and have postitve or negative feelings towards this or that but always remember that teen love is like as we say here a summer cloud ...rare but could be

back to the fox waiting his catch ... eliminate him from your life ... he is simply a mean man ... stop talking to him and if you happen to see him by coinsidence never talk or even look at him ignore him as if he never exists ..and be sure yr boy is not in some army barrack right now ...do the right thing and call your boy directly ..you dont need that fox to talk to him .

please write if you have anything else in your mind you want to ask about

good luck

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