hisham zein my final decision

Submitted by anonymus (United Kingdom), Oct 8, 2008 at 18:51

Hi Hisham,

thanks for your reply, you have said things that have been eating away at me for a long time and i just needed the advice to shake me into sense. i knew it was not real but i was in denial and hoping for something that wasn,t there. They get you so swept up with it all with their convincing sweet words, their confidence and their strong characters that you question your doubts and feel that its you thats being paranoid, so you carry on and then something else happens that makes you suspicious, they have another excuse and so.... you go round in this circle.

i dont know really what i will miss but i have finally decided stop contact once and for all. I know in time i will feel so glad that I have and i will feel a fool for getting involved and falling for the lies, I am glad I refused to send him any money, i'm a fool but not that big a fool ! I need to concentrate on my life here now and get him out of my head. If anyone is reading this and feels in doubt about their man listen to the advice you are given now because i thought perhaps mine was different but I was being used ,I know this now. Thanks so much Hisham i am so grateful that you made me see sense, this site will keep me in the real world!

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