Internet love is a dangerous game!

Submitted by Iris (United States), Oct 12, 2008 at 14:45

What wrong with you people out there? Don't you have anything better to do than sit in front of your computer? You all have to be so desperate and uneducated to even consider thinking of finding romance or marriage off a computer! Ask yourself this question.

1. Do you really know the other person 100% on the other side of your screen?

2. Don't you understand people you meet over the internet that does not even live in your good ole' country USA will say very sweet nice things THAT YOU WANT TO HEAR, behind there minds is a totally different way. Not right now, no !!!!. Just to get what they want. ( green card & american citizenship). So they can bring one by one of there family member inside the USA. The man will divorce you shortly after he gets this. Marry one waiting for him in his own country. Yes, he will bring his new wife to USA too. This is how it works.

3. Do you really want to take this risk? End up getting your dreams and heart broken. You are taking a high risk. Or he could be dangerous and harm or worse rape or murder you. You don't know this!

4. Is your Mr. Charming so cute? You better choose what is more important. The beauty is more favor on the inside than on the outside. Would you ever able trust him? He will more likely cheat on you and dumping you for another.

5. Do you really beleive every promise he makes to you, wallah inshallah? Don't hold your breath! Most men are the most liars ever born on this earth! They are pretty clever know how to play there game. These men are fishing over the internet to catch there bait. Don't you realize this? By sitting at your computer , you are making it so easy for him to capter.

Do yourself a favor and be smart for a change and do it the right way. Go out, look around. There is a man out there right next to you. Many of them that are not already married. Date him and get to know him. Take one step at a time and not rush into a relationship. Marry only who is already here in your country. But make sure he is not already married nor living illegal in our country. Meet his parents and family, so you know the real past behind your man and to know you are well liked and accepted by his family. And choose your future spouse that has the same belief and religion as you are. Interfaith marriages will never survive, no matter how well you put all your effort in to save your marriage. It cannot be and was never meant to be.

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