the good old times

Submitted by Hisham (Egypt), Oct 12, 2008 at 19:25

Isis

i never meant to hurt you or anyone here nor have i meant to insult anyone ...

of course older women have the absolute right to love and be loved and to practice love like any other age, let me remind you am old too , older men or women are not idle product to be stored and

i should agree with you that age difference is not neccessarily a reason for failures, i know a local man who is 35 years older than his wife adn they achieved the total happiness....

contrary to what you believe am conservative am urging every man and woman to seek warmth and love in his/her life..that is very essential...love is the fuel of our existence ...no matter how age difference is B U T :

that shouldnt be a reason to fall into young scammers scams....am sorry but if i fall in love with a woman of say 20 ..from the love and sex points of view why should she fall in love with me ..there are fresher fruits out there ... let me simply tell you how will it go i will get older ..the clock never stops and we should respect rules of life ..i will lose my sexual drive and she will be in her best sexual drive age ..... should she keep going or will she start looking out ?..its worse when the aged part is a woman .

i believe when we get older we need more mature and wise partners who have the same age ways of thinking ..warmth in our lives isnt sex it is intimacy, peace of mind, contentness and flying hearts then sex comes next ...its important of course but isnt the main issue .

i lived my youth when i used to see shyness in the eyes and acts of women and that was very sexy and i believe shyness is a plus ...women shouldnt be easy catch ..women are valuable and they should behave accordingly .

you said am thinking as if we were living in the 70s i really hope to be in the 70s again when relationships were more respectable and women were women and men were men but i realize we are in the 08s and there are lots of things that have changed and unfortunately changed to the worst . there are values we neglected and this is for both men and women .

let me tell you am old by age but young by heart ... i sometimes do things my own kids cant do in their 20s ages ...so age is not counted by the years its counted by the happy times and the ways you make yourself happy .

men and women love and sex relationship should really be shaken, filtered, sieved because now we call sex love and that isnt true ... and because that relationship is getting into the grey area lots of disasters happen .

please please please dont get me wrong so as luigi all our efforts are for your own good all of you..we may sometimes be wrong or right but at least we spared some time to read and comment here and as luigi once said in fairness to our judgement we should know the whole story and listen to both parts which is not available here . and you should admit since there are male cheaters there are also female cheaters as well .

all ages and both sexes have the total right to practice the warm feelings of love and that is my belief there is something i didnt want to share here but i think i will have to ....listen

a week ago i read in the local newspaper that an egyptian film director killed his dutch wife who was 18 years older ....the reason ...a really strange reason ....they were fighting daily because the guy was alcoholic and used to drink too much even in the days of ramadan and that his dutch wife resented very much ...one night she found an empty bottle of whisky and blamed him and asked for divorce ...he simply killed her and ran away ...neighbers called the police that caught him the next day and confessed all i said .

the odd thing in this murder is that its the dutch wife who is used to drinking in her homeland who blamed her moslim husbend of drinking not the contrary ...the story has not ended ...

the guy said he knew her in a chatroom on the net a couple of years ago then they married ...the woman was very cute and nobody can ever blame her ..she was trying to reform her husbend but the stupid man chose to end her blames shutting her up forever ..... the least that guy will get is a life sentence .

age difference should really be within reason ....i may find it reasonable to love someone 10 years maybe 13 years younger but never any younger .....

in reply to your comment on the egyptian way of life ...egypt was invaded and occupied by different countries during history ....turks, arabs, french british and what really made it stand was that people used to have their own traditions heritage and values as a protecting shield against those invadors ...in morroco and algeria for instance people there speak much more fleunt french than arabic ...egypt was occopied by the british for 82 years and arabic is still the main spoken language and that was the only enfleunce we had from outside invadors ...arabs invaded egypt and years later the whole population spoke arabic .

and again i never meant to hurt anyone here

thank you

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