To Kim re religion

Submitted by yasemin (Canada), Oct 25, 2008 at 14:47

Kim, as a former catholic i know that the catholic religion views marriage as a sacrament and permanent. Muslims on the other hand see marriage as a contract to be broken whenever the marriage becomes inconvenient. Not a sound basis for a trusting relationship. My advice: RUN. The low and selfish value they place on marriage is disgusting. You have a child to think of and that should make you extremely wary, if you value your child and want her to grow up in a secure home.

These men are predators - they will leave you at the drop of a hat if they can secure a better arrangement, not to mention they can resort to abuse with no hesitation after marriage and that will have a lifelong impact on your child. I would never expose a child to one of these "men" - they are like dr. jekll and mr. Hyde before and after marriage. Your child comes first. God has entrusted you with your child's well-being and happiness. To marry one of these men is to betray the gift of a child.

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