To Lovely- Moroccan and black relationships

Submitted by annoymous in USA (United States), Oct 26, 2008 at 06:05

I can not say for all Moroccans but I can say that my Fiance has said that even though he is not prejudice he has never been interested in a black woman. Same with me being American, I have never dated a black american nor have I ever been attracted to them. Its a preference. Some are ignorant anyway. For example my brother called my Fiance a "Sand N.." only cause he is different and from an Arabic country and is darker skin than the typical white american. My Fiance is considered a white Moroccan-very light skin.....You know, Its my choice in life to marry whoever I choose so I am not letting his ignorance stand in the way of love.

Luigi asks why people read here. Its interesting to read. Its not to question our man's identies/love, it is sometimes to learn little things like facts they can marry cousins, can't eat pork, how to marry a moroccan, how some Muslims may act or not act. Everyone is their own person. You have to look deep inside that person's heart and mind and get to know them and if you do question their sincerity I think you should not be in the relationship to begin with if you have doubt or see any red flags mentioned here and you discuss it with your fiance or boyfrnd and he has no logic answers for them.

Just my honest opinion but don't believe all you read here too Liugi will not agree with any of the relationships here! He sees red flags in every single one of them!! He is not as intelligent as he claims and cannot know 100% your Fiance's character true self so don't let him tear your relationship apart by doubting something that can be good and real. If it is not real and true, you will only know in the future! It will not matter if he is Jordanian, Moroccan, Egyptian,American, etc if he is not a good man and you a good woman and if you are not compatiable it is not going to work anyway and I do not mean religion. I think one can work through this together if you really want your marriages or relationships to work but don't base it on other's bad encounters with internet dating.

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