Best of luck for your marriage with your moroccan man.

Submitted by Hunny uk (United Kingdom), Oct 27, 2008 at 11:22

Hi Annonymous in USA,

Thanks for your reply.

This why i was confused becouse he has changed.I am so happy i did not marry him on my first visit this is what he wanted me to do, but of course i said no is too soon.Then on my second visit i stayed longer,becouse is too easy to do the acting for a short time.This is why i went to Morocco one Month last months and i have seen all changes in him and also thier way of living, i have been in hospital too!!!!I am still taking medication in the UK,but i fell much better now.In the Uk when i did the tests they have founded bacteria you normaly find the the rabish ,as well as unknown bacteria. My doctor had a look on a dictionary to make sure he was giving me the right treatment as in hospital they never seen this bacteria before.

Regarding Simo, with me was so so sweet and charming, only you, my life my moon,my sun and so on... is said was not problem for me to wear western cloths and he said was not problem my religion, it was my choose.But after one year it all become a problem for him!!!!!He changed.We used to talk on the internet for 5 to 6 hours including all saturday and sundays at first, after 4 months only 2 hour.

All Moroccans are not the same and your case looks very different ,but would be a good idea to learn some Arabic and some times is useful to use taps for the ears coz the speak very loud.I have taking out a travel and medical insurance before i went to morocco but they did not acept it they asked me to pay the visit first , cash only they dont acept credit cards,and then i could claim it back on the insurance when i was back home.No Doctor was in the clinic the nurse called the Doctor home to come to visit me and belive you me i was so so ill very high temperature ,and diarrea.I hope this will never be your case ,i have always had bottled water very careful when i made my own food .But i just wanted to share this part with you as i am not to sure if u ever been to Morocco before.

Sex before marrige is a criminal offence in Morocco can lead to 6 Months in prison.Corroption is very high in Morocco. Drugs everywhere including openly on the street .I have been told if you give good tips they will speed up the prossess of the documents as they do think we are very rich!!

By the way i did not marry Simo, coz after staying for longer the last time i realisted would never work. i feel do lucky that i live in a country where is freedom ,and i know sometime we have waiting list to see a specialist but at list if you to casualty is many doctors available, and nurses know where to mesure the temperature!!!

I am not a materialist person and i am very kind and generous but in my situation the more i gave the more they wanted.But of course he had the money to take a coffee with his friends every day!! I am worth more than this ,and i only realised this taking my time.I feel so sorry for all povery in the world but life is difficult everywere, and i am not Santa!! and i do not need to pay for love i have very good qualities to offer but i dont like when people try to be smart!!!! I can see that you are a inteligent woman and you have made up your mind , you have also said if it doesnt work out you will divorze.Divorze is not so simple if you get married in Morocco belive you me specialy if you are not Moroccan and if you are the Sponsor. I am sorry if i tell you all this, but i am just giving a idea what to aspect in the worst senario.

This is my story and we are all individuals but for what i have heard in morocco from moroccans they think we are all rich ,and woman who dont cover are not respected from man.I have heard many marry Western woman and man and then divorze to marry possibly a relative much younger than the man.And all this happens after 3 years This is why the are making things so dificult in all embasys coz they are looking after us as well as our economy .

I had a look on the internet regarding morocco,s economy and the second income in morocco is from moroccan living abroad sending money home to boost the economy for thier own people and thier own country.All the best.

Please let me know how your trip went. Have a safe trip.

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