My Morracan boyfriend/Warning to All women!!!!

Submitted by Aflac73 (United States), Oct 29, 2008 at 17:33

First of all, I'm horrified and disgusted by all the stories I'm reading so far on Arabian/Morrocan men. I met Rachid about 4 months ago. He is younger than me..28. I'm 34-single/divorced/no children. We met at a night club dancing. He was a charm at first...very attentive, sweet, romantic, physically sexy. That only last for 2 weeks after we started to be intimate. Soon after our sexual encounter, he started to change and even tried on numerous occasions to break up with me...dummy me...would call him back and we'd end up seeing each other again. This cycle went on for about a month.

I guess this was a phase, because now we have been dating for about 3 months. In the time that we've gotten closer, this man has shown his true colors. We live 1 hour from each other and we talk alot via phone. Some days he's cold, sweet, mean, shallow, then sweet again. His moods are very inconsistent. I catch him on numerous lies all the time. He has this seductive, charming voice that I feel so addicted to, that has me falling every time I talk to him. He hasn't asked me for any money yet....but he always talks about being content with his finances and that he's a survivor. This man is very intelligent. Knows 4 languages: Spanish, English, French and Arab. He's also a psycho manipulator. Very quick with the tongue to hurt and insult....and he likes it because he gets off on it and it turns him on. He's very jealous and doesn't like it when I'm out and about or having fun.

He'll punish me by not talking to me for a day or so....or keeps our conversations very cold and short. He likes that I call him...charming him. He doesn't ever call me first for the day...but he always returns my calls. One night we got into a heated argument in which we lashed out at me for 4 hours and had me shaking and trembling after I hung up with him. He likes to play mind games....likes to be in control.....calling the shots. He wants me to be submissive to him in which I'm fully not since I'm a Puerto Rican. I find that I'm a challenge to him....I think he wants to try to break me to see if I'll be subservient to him. I feel attracted to him because mostly the sex is out of this world....reality check is that I know I can't stay with him because of that. He's in the status of obtaining is green card but is also trying to lure me for stability since his American wife left him. I'm not confused, I know what he wants.

I was starting to fall just like all the ladies on this website....and the light just turned on after I started reading all of these horror stories. I'll play his game, use him as well, but start to back off since I know he's not for me. I really do like him, yet he doesn't love, he only thinks with his mind and has only one thing on his mind which is "Citizenship".

Ladies, Please stay away from these Morracan men. They will only use you, hurt, exploit, mentally and emotionally torture you. Walk away now.....they don't know how to love. Enjoy them for what they are good for only which is a little money and "SEX". Thats it!!!! Play their game......don't get attached. These men are very clever and sweet at first....then they'll change when they think they have you where they want you. Dangerous breed of men.....TRUST ME!!!!! Don't get played....Be the player!!!!

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