My Advice.

Submitted by Hunny Uk (United Kingdom), Nov 5, 2008 at 15:59

Hi Isalover,

1) You are living with a married man,his visa has expired and he was looking to get married for a green card?Why are you still with him?He is married ,even if he lives with you he has a wife and 2 daughters.The wife's wait as long as it takes, as long as they can get a better life for thier self and for the children ,and in thier religion they can have up to 4 wifes anyway.I doubt it she is filing for divorce.

Let me tell you what many Turkish man do in the UK.

They come over here to live only God knows how!! they marry a British and as soon as they get the passport they divorce the British wife.I have never heard of a Turkish man divorcing a Turkish wife for a British one.Have you seen the divorcing papers?Even if he will divorce her can you really trust this man?Some times they do divorce the first wife, and then after they marry the same wife again of course when they do have all the legal papers. Please dont be his GREEN CARD.

Can be very difficult at first to walk away,but best to be save than sorry!! ARE many nice man in this world, dont be second best to any man.

I am sorry if i am been crude ,but at list i have been totally honest i dont like to see anybody soffering is really not fair. He is playing with you to get want he wants and this is the GREEN CARD!!!!!!

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