You are not alone Isalover.

Submitted by Hunny Uk (United Kingdom), Nov 7, 2008 at 20:09

Hi Isalover,

Walking away from somebody we love can be very difficult,but if is not genuine love could hurt us more in the future.Depends on us if we want to take the risk.I dint want to take the risk but this is me.

My friend had a similar situation to yours,she married this guy but then they could not trust each other coz the start was not good, and divorzed in the end.Going out and meeeting new people sometimes can help and can give us more confidence,and i know you feel gulty but he is the one has to feel gulty not you.Coz the wife,s in the Muslim religion are used to share thier husband ,but we are not used to it.we are the ones who end up soffering in the end.

I am sure your will find a nice man who can give you real love to you only ,with facts not only with words.

Wish you all the best, if you feel to write please get in touch.You are not alone on here.

Take care.

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