thank u lina

Submitted by isalover (United States), Nov 8, 2008 at 08:34

Thank you for the advise......sometimes the truth is in our face and we dont want to see or admit it. Belive me when i say i think of the what if's on a daily basis, and the guilt I feel at times has even broken us up a few times. he claims he loves me and wants to be with me. I just dont understand why it is so hard for people to think it is possible that he could be in love with me just because he is muslim the possibility of loving a another would be all a lie. he married 16 yrs ago has been away from her 8 yrs has not been back.

yes he does his duty of supporting the and sending what the girls need or want. couldnt it be possible he wants a new life that the one he had which was culturally pushed just may not be the life he wants anymore. people do grow apart and love takes on a role of responsibilty and not so much happiness. and i have met others who are married to turkish men and are in love....maybe living in the us for so long has shown him he has choices he didnt in turkey ....like being in love freely and happy......just a thought remember we are all human and all have minds and hearts of our own....

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