To Noel and all others here on the blog

Submitted by Lisa (United States), Nov 11, 2008 at 22:05

Hi Noel Thanks for your concern and yes we knew this already and he has been getting papers ready on his end for past couple weeks now that we both will need and he has frnds in high places so he thinks maybe 1st week we will have everything finished so second week we can travel or least we are hoping. We both have already had blood work , medical HIV tests and sexual diseases tests etc required and police reports required. I have Dr statements of medical history and no need for pregnancy test and all that will be in writing too and he has been filing papers already on his end. I didn't want to wait myself and he left it up to me what I thought best and where and when to marry. I am under no obligation or pressure to marry him. I want to be this man's wife. He is a good man. We have both discussed if we feel not compatiable in person we can wait or not go through with the marriage but its not going to happen. We love one another and there is no doubt in my mind and I have no nervousness about going there or meeting him..No doubts about his sincerness, faithfulness, or love for me...We both are comfortable with one another...He knows what he wants and so do I. Getting married in Morocco was my idea cause I thought it might speed process up and I would see his culture and life and meet his family. I may be wrong but a Moroccan who married American here got married in Morocco but still filed the K-1 Fiance Visa even though already married but we will decide that after the marriage....Thanks again but really I don't want any advice...I was not and am not looking for advice here or from Luigi...I am a smart woman and I have a very good sense of judgment of people's character..I posted to let some women know who stumble on this blog as I did that not all relationships of these men are scammers or going to fail..just be smarter about who you date no matter what culture or religion.....you put yourselves in these positions so live with the consequences if they fail....if you doubt it from the beginning, then walk away from it...its called LIFE people....Don't be so naive. We all have to live and make our own choices and mistakes....You will do what you wnat to do anyway just as I will...We don't need a 26 year old on here trying to tell us how to live our life.....Its YOUR life!!!

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