You've been used

Submitted by Naive Girl (Australia), Nov 12, 2008 at 07:52

First of all, sorry to hear this horrible story. The fact that he has his greencard(why do you call it this if you live in IREland, its the USA that gives greencard).

1)Algerian men only present a woman to their family if they respect her and want to marry her. The fact he has done this means he HAD intent to marry you.

2)You are pregnant outside of marriage. This is seen as the worst type of woman. He will probably not marry you now as you would bring shame to his family(I am being honest). I child born outside of marriage will not acceptable to his family, they will think you are a "easy" girl.

3)If he cheated on you once, he will do it again

4)why would he marry youu?? he has the residency and now he has his "play thing"(you).

Don't want to be offensive, but I know the way muslim men think. I know many algerian men who married "WESTERN" woman and they are now divorce. It happens like this:

Once they get permanent residency they will either;

1)Quit their "WESTERNER", even if they have children

2)Treat their "WESTERNER" like a dog, hit her, cheat on her etc until she gets rid of him(cowards why out). Many show their real face once they have permanent residency, as they don't need to pretend anymore

They will either stay single and play around(sleep around). Or they will marry a younger wman from their country. Sometimes the muslim man may really love his western wife, but the pressure from his family at home to marry a girl from his country is too great and he will follow the pressure of his family.

I do not know ONE SINGLE ALGERAIN< MOROCCAN< TUNISIAN man who is still with his western wife after having gained permament citizenship. ITS DOESN'T MATTER IF THE WESTERN GIRL IS STUNNINGLY BEAUTIFUL, GREAT WIFE, GOOD MOTHER ETC. THIS IS NOT IMPORTANT FOR SOMEONE WHO IS TRYING TO HAVE WESTERN CITIZEN TO SEND BACK MONEY TO HIS POOR FAMILY IN THEIR THIRD WORLD COUNTRY,

FOR A MUSLIM MAN HIS WIFE HIS USUALLY SOMEONE HIS PARENTS HAVE CHOSEN FOR HI. MARRIAGE IS A MATTER OF CONVIENCE FOR A MUSLIM MAN. "LOVE" IS NOT THE IMPORTANCE. IF A MUSLIM MAN IS NOT SATISFIED WITH HIS WIFE HE WILL DISCARD HER LIKE AN OLD TISSUE AND FIND ANOTHER.

I AM BEING BRUTAL BUT HONEST. I DONT WANT OTHER WOMEN TO GET USED, ABUSED AND DISCARDED BY A PATHETIC USER WHO SEARCHES CITIZENSHIP NOT LOVE.

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