You are too naive

Submitted by Shadae (Australia), Nov 16, 2008 at 20:14

hi Lisa, First of all, you seem to have a good life in the USA. You are a mother of three children and have your own business thats great. Are you ready to complicate your life by being financially responsible for this moroccan man if you sponsor his visa to the USA. I think its a 10 year agreement to support him. At worst, if he left you and used up your credit card you would have to continue to pay his debts for ten years. You say you are smart. Maybe you are, but that does not mean that your are not naive. Having read all your posts I find it remarkable how naive you are for a 41 year old mother of three. Honestly Lisa, do you think your young moroccan man would marry a 41 year old divorced mother of three if she was MOROCCAN LIVING IN MOROCCO. NO OF COURSE NOT!!!! Why would a young, handsome, never been married(so you think, maybe he has a wife but their marriage was a religious one, thererfore not official on paper, its done) marry a divorced, 41 year old mother of three?????????????? BECAUSE SHE IS AN AMERICAN CITIZEN. HE WANTS YOUR NATIONALITY.

I had to be brutal. All the red flags are there. You are too old to have children and give him the most important thing in the Muslim world; A SON. WAKE UP LISA. YOU WIL BE ANOTHER STATISTIC. YOU DON'T NEED TO GET MARRIED. ARE YOU TRYING TO GET REVENGE ON YOUR HUSBAND??? REMEMBER HE WILL BE THE ONE LAUGHING WHEN YOU GET USED AND DUMP LIKE ALL THE OTHER AMERICANS WHO HAVE MARRIED THIRD WORLD CITIZENS. Lisa, don't marry him.

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