Hi Luige.........UPDATE

Submitted by sash (Ireland), Nov 17, 2008 at 17:43

I'm sure U remember Me, Mrs I love my muslim Man!!!

I haven't been on this site for nearly a Yr now, I was thinking of U for some bizarre reason & I was thinking how I nvr thanked You. I hope that in the last Yr other people have listened to what U have to say and the advise U have to offer.

After Me being such an idiot and trying to lie to myself whilst being brainwashed by my ex husband, Even though I fought U on nearly every word eventually I sat back and realised... I was on a massive amount of antidepressants, Drinking a lot - daily, Smoking. I realised that everything that You were saying, not only to me but to every1 was the way my life was.

He was killing me, I was smothered, I had no work except at home with the kids, couldn't go to the shop by myself, Didn't have the guts to go anywhere, I was a mess.. go days without shower, no make-up, always in pj's had no clothes in my wardrobe that fit, I was 20kgs over weight and to embarrased to do r go anywhere AND HE LOVED IT LIKE THAT!!! He ran me into the ground.

Anyway I read U'r advise and left him.

I was a lone parent with no money, no home, no income and 3 very small children and a 12 yr old. Now after less that 1 yr I have My life back, Family, Friends, my kids are in Daycare, I opened up my own little Barber Shop, I don't have a lot of money but then again since I met him I lost everything even the control over my own money and bank account, I don't drink, smoke, take anti d's, I feel like I have a life now. I feel like a weight has been lifted and I have been given a second chance. I love life now...

He is still hanging around, stalking me and my business. I have to be collected from work by my father at the age of 32 and walked to my car, I've had to move back home with my parents till the court dates are over and hopefully he is put in prision r deported! wishful thinking!

I will advise You girls, Once these men get a visa into the country to marry, It's impossible to get them out after! When U sign a marrage cert, U'r signing into a life sentence. It's not a joke . Islam is a cult not a religion. It has no respect for women and their rights r women and their lives, You don't even own U'r own body once Your married to them, they will take U over mind, body and soul and distroy U. If the marrage goes wrong U will spend U'r life looking over Your shoulder, frightened for Your childrens safety everything. Listen to what has to be said, and take the advise u have been looking for, after all If U where 100% sure of U'r muslim U wouldn't be looking here for answers.

Ps: Thank You Luige for opening my eyes and saving me and my children from a life of Hell!

All My love & Best Wishes,

Sash.

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