Hi Karen G, my little adivice to you.

Submitted by Hunny Uk (United Kingdom), Nov 19, 2008 at 10:09

Hi Karen G ,

Thanks for sharing your story.

Unfortunatly they never say their true intentions,but when time goes on you might see a change in him.My ex was ever so sweet with from the start ,only you my baby, my sweetheart ,my moon my star ,my princess, my queen.....and his family were fantastic to me.But they all had a plan,i walked away just before the marriage.

This is how it all starts, they make you feel they love you, you are the only one and so on......including the family!!! But is only words this is not real love,and in the muslim religion is the man has to look after the woman, be careful if he tells you any sobbing story regarding his health, his mom, or dad are ill and so on....this is a other trick they use to make you offer money to them.Please look at Luigi,s post too and lesson to him, and to other people on here.

They do end up marrying thier own people in the end ,i have seen it with my own eyes,including to marry thier own blood and much younger than them,but in order to do that they have to marry a western woman to get all the legal papers first and make the western woman pay for it too!!!!

I would walk away if i were in you cos gets more dificult,of course is up to you, is your life and is your time too.Do you really what to take the risk?I waisted 1 Year of my time.Please think!!!

Best of luck,

Take care.

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