To Just Thinking

Submitted by Hunny Uk (United Kingdom), Nov 21, 2008 at 18:40

Salaam,

Thank you for sharing your story.

I try to help as much as i can.To totaly honest with you the girl you are talking to is from a rural area near Rabat.I know my ex fiancee family have some land around that area.I hope the initials of the girl are not N and surname F.

Regarding sending a laptop, they never ask directly but they do have sweet ways, and know very well how to get what they want ,and this applies to many people i have met in Morocco.The fact she told you she was chatting to more than one man on msn ,was she been sarcastic when she replied?Or she was chatting to other man for real?

I would ask her how long she have had the account with msn.Why would she have a msn account if she dont know many people?And the story about is brother he has a computer but his goes away does not really add up to me specialy if she is studing ,he would give priority to his sister, and how can his brother have a computer if they are poor?My Ex sister is studing Islamic i hope is not her.

The internet line cost about 200 dirams per month and they need to pay for the telephone box on the top of that.Do they have the internet connection home?This is something else i would ask coz if they dont in a sweet way she might make you pay for that too.I am also thinking about what she said about her parents are old and they be worried if she goes to live somewhere else.In a Muslim marriage is the woman has to follow her husband,this is a other point i would clearify.I would be very careful if she tells you about her parents health coz she will be after money not love!

Is not only in Casablanca has the mentality to be materialist ,and i have seen this with my own eyes they say they dont want ,but they want more than you give ,and the more you give the more they take!

For what i could see whilst i was in Morocco ,the woman chat to man too in the cyber on msn and yahoo,and they do cover, they still use the cyber even when the get a laptop from some man.I just wonder myself do they sell it?Does she have a mobile phone?And if she has why does she need one if she hasnt got any friends ?If she is always home why would she need a mobile phone?

When i gave a laptop to ex they even critisied me coz dint give him a laptop bag!!!and the mobile phone i gave him was not good, coz him, his sister and his brother said was old fashioned!!!I tell one think in my opinion they are very materialist and so false.

Other young girl i met she told me when she got enganged to her moroccan fiance, he is living in Europe at the moment ,she wanted the most expensive ring in the shop ,and she was very open about it.I questioned her" but muslim not suppost to be materialist "and her reply was "i want the best i can get in life."and she has never gone out of the door without any family member.This is just to give some idea.

Personaly if i were in you, i would find a good girl near you at list you can be more sure what she does every day.Coz on this one i am not too sure, they are very good in acting unfortunaly ,and they like to keep thier options open for the best deal.

Now is up to you to see if u are a good deal ,or if she is the genuine woman of your life.If you need to ask me more please let me know i will relpy to you.I am here to help in what i can,i dont like to see any woman or man soffer,or get used.

I wish all the best in everything you do.

Take care.

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