REALITY CHECK

Submitted by Shadae (Australia), Nov 22, 2008 at 21:59

Lisa, you may think you are an attractive woman but think of this. When your man gets his greencard/permanent residency in the USA you will be 44 and he will be 34. So.. he wil still be a HANDSOME YOUNG SEXY MAN and at 44 you will look and feel much older than him. He will have permanent residency in the USA(what he wanted) and he will have no need for you.

Even if he has feelings for you, there will be an ENORMOUS pressure put on him by his family to divorce you and marry a cousin of his. They marry cousins to get their family in the USA. How is a 44 year old woman going to compete with the offer of the cream of the cream morrocan YOUNG VIRGIN RELIGIOUS GIRLS. Your man can go back to Morocco and chose whoever he wants. As a US citizen he will be treated like a KING. Do you think he is going to saty with a 44 year old when he can marry a YOUNG VIRGIN MOROCCAN girl? There is no question that you will be dumped.

Let's be honest Lisa. You are fooling yourself. I have to be honest NOW to stop you from the HEARTACHE and HUMILATION you are going to suffer LATER if tyou make the ENORMOUS mistake of marrying this man.

THINK ABOUT IT/ IF HE WAS A 32 YEAR OLD AMERICAN MAN, WITH NO MAONEY, NO JOB, NO HOUSE, WHO STILL LIVED WITH HIS PARENTS, WOULD YOU MARRY HIM???? I DON'T THINK SO. YOU ARE LETTING HIS GOOD LOOKS AND EXOTICISM TRAP YOU INTO WHAT WILL ONLY BE A FINANCIAL, EMOTIONAL AND LEGAL MESS AFTER HI HAS HIS PERMANENT RESIDENCY.

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