,,, listening to your own intuition Darcy

Submitted by Isis (Australia), Nov 30, 2008 at 06:08

" .... but then i think should i listen to my gut and maybe i fear all this for bigger reasons".

Fortunately women have a powerful aid to fight or flight responses and this is called intuition. Darcy, listen to your gut feeling and your own intuition about this man. You made the decision not to go to Morocco to marry him and stayed with your child because of your gut feeling. It is a huge step travelling alone to an Islamic country to marry a man that you have only known on the internet and just as huge a step to leave your child. You are a mother first and foremost so please think long and hard about this relationship. You can never know someone completely over the internet as you see only what they want you to see and you hear what they want you to hear.

Instead of thinking that you owe this man an explanation think positively in that you don't owe your child one.

All the best.

Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments".