To Elizabeth

Submitted by Hunny Uk (United Kingdom), Dec 2, 2008 at 17:43

Dear Elisabeth,

Thank you for sharing your story.

I deeply understand your position and all your concerns regarding your daughter, s online relationship with a Moroccan. I was dating a Moroccan man for more than 1 Year and I do understand your daughter position too. Moroccans are extremely good manipulators and do anything to get what they want!!!!Including saying everything a woman likes to hear, they get tips form American films. Is all an act….and are extremely good actors too!!!

The fact your daughter ended her relationship with a Christian is not good at all in the Moroccan mentality and especially in Islam .She will never be respected on this too .The age is a other issue even he they say age is a number!!!So I am 100% sure this man his using your daughter, but unfortunately she cannot see it right now. She has been manipulate from this Moroccan man and he makes her believe what all woman like to hear , they know how to say the right words so well. Is all a plan Elisabeth, a solicitor ready? For the visa?My god this man is a danger for you daughter BIG TIME.

He is after a visa for sure and is not good news for your daughter. It is very difficult for me to give any advice on how to make your daughter understand, she will end up in tears. Time helped me to see the truth, but only after i went to Morocco 2 times in one year ,and I have to say thanks to this board too, and to all people who have posted personal experiences on here.

If I may just give a suggestion, I would try and explain to you daughter that in Morocco, a professional person earns approx 600 euros x month and if he has no work in Morocco it will feel like he have won the lottery with your daughter .Would take him so many years to keep the money for a visa as well as finding a job in Morocco anyway. Graduate people cannot find work in Morocco is a hard life over there. I am not surprised from his mother coz she will get money out of it as they all do!!!If she marry this man she will have to support his family in Morocco too and if she don't and he finds a job he will send the majority of his money to his parents and to buy a virgin Moroccan of which his mum has already chosen for her son. This is the way it goes unfortunately for many woman.

You did the right thing to show your daughter this board , I would insists on sending all information you can to your daughter on Moroccans man , and on Islam too ,she will soon see what is going on …to post his name would be a good idea coz is many woman on this board and could be somebody we know……and could help a other woman too not to be in the same position.

This is the reason in Embasies they want so many documents and money,coz they know very well what they are up too.But becouse of the humans rights and other reasons they cannot stop 2 people getting married even if they know will end up in divorze.

They dont care about us ,all they care is money and a better future.In Islam they cannot date a woman before marriage and they will never make thier sisters pay for a man visa, or to pay for a man ticket to go and see her !!

You take care and best of luck.

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