To Darcy ,Please take your time and dont feel gulty if you dont want to go to marry him is your life, and your daughters life too and children come first !!!!

Submitted by Hunny Uk (United Kingdom), Dec 2, 2008 at 18:25

Dear Darcy,

I have been in a simillar situaton myself with a Moroccan.I have been to Morocco 2 times and the last time i stayed for more than 1 month.I didnt marry him in the end.I did the same as you did i test him before i met him, and he used to do the same with me, he would watch me on line when i would go to sleep!!!

When i was in Morocco i did see the true coulors in him ,and his family,but only on my second visit and staying more than 1 month helped me not to marry him ,as well as looking on this board.My feelings were telling me not to go to Morocco the first time ,but i did go by my heart and not by my head!!!

Today i can say i have made the right desition not to marry him.Coz they do end up with a virgin Moroccan after they divorze the western wife.In Islam is a permition the marriage to a non muslim and is justified to marry a non muslim if it benefits them and thier families, or for education abroad.....

I can only advise you to leson to your head more than your heart to be on the save side.To take your time and meet other people,and if you do want meet him in person, i would advise you to take a friend or family member with you.Coz they can see from the out side ,when we are in love we cannot see clearly....i still have to add they are really good manupulators and very sweet with words.....

Please take care all the best.

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