Reponse to Isis

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Dec 9, 2008 at 19:38

Luigi - I do not need defend anything.

Then why do you?

I have a daughter who was in a similar situation so I have a bit of idea what is going on here.

Yeah, she should come on here then and talk to people who are not going to do whatever it takes to make their little Middle Eastern man fling sound real.

For you to gain more respect on this site you need to step back a bit and ask why are you on this site?

I'm not necessarily looking for respect, Isis, I'm looking to help out people avoid heartache and headache.

Interesting you ask that question since neither you nor anyone else who brags about their "relationship" on-line has answered that and I've been on here almost a year now.

You recent modus operandi of dissecting people's responses is puzzling - why do you need to do that?

...I note that you applaud comments that written by women who are angry and have scarred by relationships,

No, I applaud them if they get out of that mess, and I seem to recall you doing the same thing as recently as catsndogs....

you denegrate anyone with a problem and you attack others, me included who seem to live and enjoy a well balanced life with a Muslim man because they have had the intelligence to research and take their time in adjusting to the situation before undertaking any sort of commitment with an interracial relationship.

My posts are not perfect in the sense that Jesus was perfect. They, you say? Isis, the last person on here who told me that she "did her research" thought the Taliban were all Shi'a. Some of the women on here get married in a matter of a few months. I hardly consider that intelligent.

I hardly call a relationship across the Indian Ocean built over the internet and SMS as well-balanced. And if he is so great, Isis, why are you spending all this time and energy talking to me? And what is he doing while you are on here?

I have spent a lot of time in the Middle East namely Egypt, Yemen, Oman, Qatar and the U.A.E. and I have life experiences which includes a relationship in close association with Islam which relates directly to the subject on this site.
My responses are not open to you for unwarranted criticism, off the topic responses and personal attacks. I only briefly glanced at your response but got the gist of what you are implying and suggest to you that your time on here would be better served by helping people rather than harassing them.

Telling it like is or criticizing Islam, Egypt or Australia or the EU is NOT harassment, Isis. That will NOT work on me, and you would be well advised to real my posts ENITRELY before responding lest you risk making a fool out of yourself.

You also need to take on board other people's thoughts, input and experience and be richer for that knowledge because from where I stand I can't see where you have had any experience that directly relates to the comment in this forum. I have just as much right to be on this forum as you. Subject closed.

First of all, you are trying to divert the subject off of your relationship and pin this on me. Nice try, Isis, but I've been around too long for that. Secondly, you seem to have no problem telling other women in not-so-nice fashion that what they have is not real, but no one had better dare to talk about Isis and her sacred Egyptian man, oh no!

Really, Isis, I'm not the one with the problem on here.

Right to the forum? Whoever said you didn't? It's just very clear that you have bias in your responses. Any relationship resembling yours that you and you lay off big time, but if its on-line you come on here and agree with me. How nice.

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