To Isis re Intentions

Submitted by KarenG (United States), Dec 13, 2008 at 09:07

Isis said: Maybe you should ask him his intentions?

Well, I broke up with him on Thursday. This is the third time I've told him but this time I called and said I that it's over. His thing about me putting him before my kids is just a huge turnoff and goes against what is most important to me now.

Not unsurprisingly, he sent me a text last night asking me if I was coming over this weekend. I told him no, I broke up with him.

This is how I have felt the last few weeks: that he views me as belonging to him, Period. And he entertains me because that is what men do, entertain and do things to make their women feel special. There is a huge divide in values here. I am not really even attracted to him anymore. I feel like he is trying to figure out who and what I want, rather than just being him. And there's other stuff too.

I expect he is not finished yet.

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