to Luigi

Submitted by Lisa USA (United States), Dec 16, 2008 at 19:33

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NOT ALL CULTURAL MARRIAGES FAIL and I don't care about your statistics....marriage is what two people make of it! and you have a lot of growing up to do at 27. You have not experienced half of what I have experienced in my lifetime! You talk about cons and acting like I am naive...well guess what Luigi you don't know me at all...You don't know the strong person I am....How can you? Im not one of thes rich westerners you have in mind with credit cards and bank accounts...My dad sold drugs...died in prison after everything was confiscated even down to our pots and pans and he died in prison after serving 10 years because he would not rat on anyone! I

I have worked since I was 16... put myself through high school and graduated got a great job raised kids without help from family so don't try and post that I am stupid or naive or don't know what I or he feels. I am headstrong and independent always have been and were taught to not let people walk all over you so therefore...my long posts to you...you can't just leave things alone...let me ask you this? You keep posting about me...why are you so fascinated in my life or if my relationship will last...its really none of your business...I post here to let others know in same situation these men are just men...not exotic or any different than you try and portray them.....sure some have had bad experiences but there are some here to that has posted their marriages have last for over 10 years but you are so sure mine and others will not...you can't know this just like I can't but guess what its MY LIFE and if it lasts 3 months...its still my life and I don't ask you to analize it! I don't ask you for your opinions on my life or choices.....not everyone is like you or like your old cheating girlfriend...

.Like I said they have money....They have more than I do ...and his family and he both knows this...He is not looking for riches.....and one day we will move to Morocco and yes i will convert to Islam and yes they have Mosque in my town and Moroccans here too.....and no we didn't just meet on-line and got engaged as quick as you imply...so if you going to post your little scenerios please post them correctly...we have talked LIVE CAM from each's bedroom from our first on-line meeting and we both were on dating sites and as soon as we met...we both deleted our sites......10 months! EVERY single day! He is a good man! ...

We talked about where we wanted this relationship to go and isn't taht what meeting and dating is unless you are a player? ...You can't possibly know if his family doesn't like me so why the bitter nasty remarks...you are so sure everyone is a fraud.....like I said I once offered to pay his net bill and he refused....you know this i posted it so don't try and make everything I say into something bad.....and go back and read too...did I post his lawyer friend was in instant message with me? Hell no! I said we met him to help us with free legal paperwork we needed while I was there...free of charge and asa good friend he took us to lunch at his expense and rode around SiDi Bouzid beach with us and took pics of us while we past time waiting for offices to open...........you read this but you wanted to imply something to your liking as usual.....Tell it like it is if you going to tell it!!....It will be a year by the time I go back on my second trip to marry...Its my life so leave it alone....if I want your advice I will ask for it....but I don't see myself asking a kid.....Lisa From USA

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