My told husband just wants a green card.

Submitted by Rosy (United States), Dec 16, 2008 at 22:44

Hello everybody: After reading some of these horrible stories and along with my doubts I came to realize that my told husband who is still in Pakistan waiting for a visa to come to USA has been lying to me and all that he wants is to get here. My story is long and would not annoy all of you with it, but for all those suffering because a loved one has done wrong and used you for a green card just think that God or in who or what you believe is giving all of us a blessing by removing such trash from our lives.

Because of this man I put my life in risk by leaving USA when I was in ending stage of renal failure without treatment at all. I lost my job, savings and wasted time on him. These last weeks and while processing his visa to USA I started realizing how much information He got about the topic that he would know what step to follow after his visa has been temporally denied (october. 2008) He recently told me that he could re-apply in 6 months and wait to be here with me even years. But then who is going to support me during this waiting period? He never said to me " I would do my best to bring you over with me, I would send you even for the phone bill, etc,"

He knows I am in disability, living with a low income not even 600 usd per month. While I was in Pakistan his family never visited us neither call me, once I got back to USA his mother would greet me on the phone very often. I did send him money before going to Pakistan but it was not more than 300. I asked him for 500 to fill out the immigration forms and ended up doing it myself so those 500 I used to take my loved little dog to the vet, he was very sick. I bet "husband" did not like it.

I need to put a total stop for the visa case, and divorce him. I just have a big worry, as the officer interviewing him in Pakistan for the visa case made a big mistake and handled him extra documents i send for the case and one of them has my social security number, I really do not know what to do and I am afraid to stop talking to him and say goodbye to him. I have been so hurt and my above talk as making fun of the 500 dollars is just how down I have been feeling with this situation, I attempted suicide and was about to die, go figure. To all of you having this sort of situation I would say just walk away, do not need to bring anybody from far away or go that far to find love. Here and now we are a lot needing love. Blessings to all.

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