Yes - things are going on here.

Submitted by Isis (Australia), Dec 18, 2008 at 22:52

It certainly sounds like you are being used Ms Clause. Have you thought that he is already having sex with other women when he disappears into the night and all night? I am sure that you've asked yourself why would he need to tell me that he wants to have sex with other women? Re drinking on a beach - was it alcohol and is he Muslim? Muslims don't usually drink.

My advice is to keep your dignity and pride intact and dump him before he uses you any more than he already has. It doesn't sound like there is a future in this relationship - sorry to be the bearer of bad news!

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