Ms clause

Submitted by Lina (United Kingdom), Dec 19, 2008 at 06:38

Hi,

Yes you should be very concerned. First of all, it's very easy for some people to say "I love you", but really actions speak louder than words. Love is about devoting yourself to one person, & doing nothing to hurt them or make them distrustful. The fact that your fiance told you that he wants sex with other women is odd to say in the least but come on, lady this is only the start of your marriage. Could you really tolerate this kind of behaviour for the rest of your life? Cause it would (unless you divorce) be for the rest of your life, & he seems to be playing around. You deserve more than that. Maybe when he went out all night, nothing bad happened, but he shouldn't be abandoning you like that anyway. Marriages with guys like that in them are usually miserable as hell.

Also, he was drinking all night? Does he claim to be a muslim, cause that's not good muslim behaviour. If you really love him and vice versa, good luck to you, but I personally wouldn't tolerate such... honest confessions from a man. But maybe that's just me, I expect a guy to bow at my feet and worship my mere existence lol. Is he really young, because if he's over a certain age he really needs to mature a little. Overall, you need to show him that you love him & that you can't stand hearing him say things like that. Don't let him say whatever he wants.

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