Well, Here is the thing about money and concerns about making a return to your man

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Dec 20, 2008 at 18:54

Thanks for the response, I am glad to be of help. You really did make the right choice, but do not be surprised if you hear from him again and he gives you a big sob story. Its been 2 years now, and my woman still has tried to contact me. My concern for those leave who their man is that they will come running back to him.

I am a real stickler when it comes to money and relationships. I've seen so many cases where people get scammed by someone they know it's ridiculous.

I really cannot advocate giving money to friends, family or your sig. other unless its like taking the person out to dinner once in a while or borrowing a few euros or something small.

But if you are talking about hundreds of dollars, well, that's trouble.

Most of the arbitration cases I see involve unmarried couples who live together and/or are financially committed, family members like parents and cousins, or close friends like roommates.

If you are giving your significant other money, they will not respect you. I swear, it's almost an automatic biological response, regardless of if he's Moroccan or not.

I made that mistake with a woman before from here in America, and boy was that a wild ride. Their all the same, though. All the I love yous to your face, how they'll do anything for you...bla bla. It's a lot more common than you may think, I'm sorry to say.

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