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Submitted by Nora Wimberley (United States), Dec 21, 2008 at 09:23

I wished i could give you my contact info, but on here that is giving smelly meat to hungry flies. Pakistan is a different country. More muslim then India, but not like the other muslim countries around it, in there thinking. I am sure now thinking about it you just want to puke over it. Need to find a imigration lawyer and talk to them, you should be able to get a free conslutaion. And go from there, since you was scammed i think it may be possible to get a divorce. But i am not sure. I just ask you to learn from your experiences and grieve this, and move forward. Life is to precious to stay put for to long. If you want companionship, it is out there.

Here in the states or aboard. Just remember there is warning signs. And if you like me to, i can write down very detailed warning signs of the most common love scams. Actualy i had a man from pkistan want me to save money for him, because american money was worth a lot of rupes(spelling). I was like yaeah ok, and blocked him. The only time money should be involved is for the visa, unless you want to send a gift or 2.

My fiance likes popular american music and my poems, so i do not mind burning him a cd and writing a poem for him. When i went to Morocco my fiance sister sent my mom a gift, a prety silver ring. I know it was worth a lot, and they sent cookies for my kids. But my laugage was stuck in Moroco for a week, that was a experience. And after customs cut all my bags up, my cookies was in crumbles. But my kids being idealistic, grabed spoons and started eating. And they loved the clothes my fiance bought them. I paid not for one thing the whole time i was there. And i seen the ATM balances. He did not hide anything from me. I seen all his friends. I seen his birth records, even. We took them to his uncle in a bigger city so they could get the offical records. That way they could then be translated for the visa,i still have not applied for yet. I seen all his pics and records of him being in the mititary. Seen his passport. And every where we went we either had a close friend or one of his brothers with us. Just so i was protected, he promised my mom i would be, and i was.I meet all his brothers and sisters, his mother, his nephew. And many will say that his siter could be his wife and nephew his son. I comment that i seen the family book of birth records, and i seen every sibling he has and there birth date. I meet uncles and aunts and his grandmother. And these family member lived in 2 different citys.

We even had to go through military checkpoints. So believe me Morocco knew i was there. And then a police check point all before getting to his small city. We had to register at the police station. With that said, if my guy was to have more woman come to him, the military would catch him and the police. Now many on here would say he could pay them to be quiet or all are involved. But there is a honor system there. And i am sure most woman that have gone to Morocco have went to the bigger cities and small towns close to Rabat. Which do not have to go through check points. And i am sure many did not register at the police station either. But if they did, it protects you and protects the family they are with. Because these men are responsibel to what happens to us in there country. Which i am sure many on here did not know that. When i think back on all my experiences, i am happy they have happened the way they did. I have proof of when i was there, and who i was with. If any other woman goes to be with my man there is record of it. So maybe woman might want to register with the police and military of there visit.

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