REALITY CHECK FOR LISA

Submitted by SHADAE (Australia), Dec 23, 2008 at 03:29

Lisa I want to help you. I am not hear to criticise. You may even wish you had listened to my advice if you bring your fiance to the USA.

His family tell you that you are beautiful and they are all very nice. Lisa, you must realise you are their only chance to get to the USA> Now, if I lived in a third world country with no opportunity to make more than 300 dollars(US) per month I would treat ANY USA citizen who was MY ONLY CHANCE to get to the USA as A QUEEN. think about it lisa. Once you marry the moroccan and bring him to the USA his famaily only need to be nice to you for TWO YEARS THEN THEY CAN DUMP YOU. THEY WILL HAVE THEIR PRECIOUS GREENCARD AND YOUR MOROCCAN CAN SEND MONEY BACK HOME AND EVEN FIND A YOUNGER WIFE(THAT IS IF HIS FAMILY HAVN'T ALREADY FOUND ONE. You are too naive LISA>

You have to have lived in a third world country to realise that TWO YEARS OF ACTING FOR A LIFETIME OF RICHES(LIVING IN THE USA) IS NOTHING AT ALL. HEY, IF ILIVED IN A THIRD WORLD COUNTRY AND I HAD AN OLD, UGLY MAN WANTING TO MARRY ME I WOULD PRETEND TO LOVE HIM FOR TWO YEARS TOO. THEN I WOULD LEAVE HIM AND MARRY SOMEONE I LOVED. ITS CALLED A MARRIAGE OF INTEREST. IT IS NOT FROWNED UPON BY ANYONE IN THIRD WORLD COUNTRIES BECAUSE THEY ARE HELPING THEIR FAMILY BETTER THEMSELVES.

This is the reality LISA. I know your fiance will leave you. I think he is already married. Probably, by religious marriage. This is the only marriage most muslims do. It is not recognised by the law, so you can not know if he is married. A religious marriage allows muslim men to have more than one wife, He can marry you legally in Morocco and still marry another 3 wives in MOrocco. You will never know. The religious marriage is under the eyes of GOD. It is the only marriage important to muslims. I f he doesn't have a religious marriage with you, it is a sign that he plans to leave you as he would not lie to ALLAH. But, it also allows a man to dump his wife without the hassle of a divorce. Most peasants in North Africa have only a religios marriage, never legally married.

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